Hello darlings,
What is sexier than harm reduction? Probably not what you signed up for, but this is what you get from your friendly neighborhood dominatrix and public health nerd. COVID numbers remain high all over the country and, as such, I would like to tell you a bit about my COVID protocols, virtual offerings, and raging desire to connect with more COVID-cautious clients.
Due to this seemingly never ending spike, I will be taking only one more session until May. Now is the time to book ahead—my books are never open for long.
For those who are interested in seeing me before May, find my COVID protocols at the bottom of this newsletter. If you are a sex worker, feel free to copy/adapt the protocols for your needs.
Want to Serve Mommy Sooner? Virtual Submissive Training Available
In the meantime, I’ve been enjoying virtually training my most devoted submissives. A beloved submissive who I’ve been training at a distance celebrated one year in my service by reflecting on my blog:
“You helped me understand desires and urges that always lurked beneath the surface of my expression of kink, from a need to play with gender to the peace that comes with becoming a vessel for pleasure.
I had always been fascinated by BDSM equipment and gear, but you showed me that these were just tools, which you could wield but did not need to get into my head and make me feel your power over me.”
Interested in exploring your submissive side? My training spans virtual play and personal 1:1 coaching to guided meditations and mantra training to deepen your submissive practice.
Implanting fetishes in your malleable little brain, molding your desires to mine, and squeezing every last drop of utility from you… let Mommy show you exactly how to serve her virtually, sweetie.
Cultivating a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)
Or perhaps you would like to explore your dominance, instead? I love working with women and queers who want to cultivate their dominance and train their submissives/partners to their own standards. Helping other women step into their power is truly divine.
Curious? I recently interviewed a couple in a female-led relationship on cuckolding, adding a D/s dynamic to an existing relationship, and more.
Mommy’s Basement Is Open - Quarantine Edition
Lately, I’ve been dreaming about a forced quarantine session where I lock a lucky submissive up in Mommy’s Basement for 5+days (slightly longer than the new CDC guideline of nothing). Heavy bondage and 24/7 surveillance to ensure good behavior, of course.
Mommy is very busy, but I’m sure I won’t forget about you down there.
Once you clear your Mommy-mandated quarantine, you can be released to my eager and qualified hands, where I’ll have my way with you.
*sigh* Until then… here are my recent conversations with Mistress Fae and Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou.
Dominatrix Mistress Blunt Interviews Psychoanalyst Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou on Consent, Risk, & Trauma
I was fortunate to have the opportunity to interview Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou on how BDSM intersects the psychoanalytic theory of consent and sexuality. We discuss: our capacity of living with, but not healing from trauma; how BDSM can revisit our emotional wounds; psychological vulnerability on both sides of a D/s relationship; and much more.
This is one of my favorite interviews that I’ve done so far. Following Dr. Saketopoulou’s new book, Sexuality Beyond Consent: Risk, Race, Traumatophilia (Sexual Cultures), we combine theory and lived experience for a comprehensive discussion of consent, risk, and trauma.
Femdom Dominatrix Mistress Blunt Interviews Mistress Fae
I had the chance to chat with Mistress Fae about working in tech, the joy of dominating tech bros at tech conferences, the false assumptions about penetration and power, and the digital security work we do with fellow sex workers.
Here’s an excerpt:
“I think there’s something so necessary about the breaking down of the ego in order to reform it in another shape that’s actually serving you and actually useful. I have a submissive who I work with very closely and is a very dear submissive to me who works at a big tech company and is on a fast track to managing more and more people, and they’re pushing him in that direction.
He has some coaching from his company as well to learn some more managerial traits. But he tells me, “It’s so interesting how much I’ve learned from my submission to you being so applicable to excelling at work. I’m excelling so fast in what they’re teaching me too. It was really amazing to see all of this work in support of making Mommy more money and making Mommy proud.
COVID Protocols
To see me in-person, you must be vaccinated and have a booster within the last six months. I will ask you to take a rapid-PCR test (like Lucira or Cue) 24-hours and an hour before our booking and email me the results. I ask that you confirm that we try to find a time where you will be able to mask and avoid public indoor activities and crowds for the days leading up to our session (and limit risk whenever possible). I am fully vaccinated, boosted, and test regularly. I am immunocompromised and take my health and safety seriously, and expect you to do the same!
Missing me already? If you’re not subscribed to my OnlyFans and LoyalFans, you should be. Mommy will be prioritizing her LoyalFans, and you’ll find all of my clips there, including a brand new 30-minute manifesto on financial domination. My lucky devotees have recently received bathtub nudes, a video of me playing with myself before an evening with my lover, and brutal edging instructions you’ll love to hate.
With love and leather,
Mistress Blunt
P.S. Wondering what it’s like to be completely and utterly mine? Don’t miss my submissive, Duckling, interviewing me.
P.P.S. Want to show your gratitude to me? Mommy has a new wishlist.